Jaime N. Calaf
Courage Starts Small
Small choices shape character. Teaching kids to speak up—even when it’s uncomfortable—plants the seeds of courage that last a lifetime.
The Strength of Silence
Silence isn’t withdrawal—it’s oxygen. In solitude we sharpen clarity, become more present, and protect the strength that constant noise erodes
Friction is the Enemy
DayLog 001: Friction kills most creative work. Not time. Not talent. Just resistance. Motion before spark.
Hijacked
Some systems run on the backs of quiet professionals—until those backs break. A strategic breakdown of how high performers get hijacked by dysfunctional organizations, and what happens when they walk away.
The Erasure of the Founder
After Lucas Botkin offered to buy out the other owners, they declined. Now T.Rex Arms is rewriting the story—one timeline entry at a time. Founders aren’t always pushed out. Sometimes, they walk away—and then get erased.
Going Analog by Being Quiet
Most people scroll to escape. I started writing again to return.
This post is about choosing quiet over noise—and what I’ve been rediscovering by going analog.
The Cost of Casual Equity
When Lucas Botkin walked away from T.REX ARMS, it wasn’t because the business failed—it was because control slipped through his hands. This post breaks down what happened and why founders must protect their cap table at all costs.
Go Write
Journaling isn’t soft—it’s one of the most honest, rigorous tools I’ve ever used to think clearly, train intentionally, and stay grounded through chaos. Writing things down made me better. Go write.
A Day on the Job: Thoughts on the film Warfare
A quiet reflection on the film Warfare—and why showing up, without drama or glory, is often the most honest form of leadership.