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The 80% Identity
Unexpected Teachers
Some of the most powerful lessons I’ve learned came from people I didn’t expect—on the range, in an empty office, or in my own home. These moments reshaped how I lead, parent, and show up.
Just Because You Can, Doesn’t Mean You Should
Most Americans take their rights for granted — but owning a gun without skill is not self-defense, it’s a liability. This is a call to those who carry: train, or don’t carry at all.
The #1 Rule Most Companies Break
Most companies don’t fail because of bad ideas—they fail because they hire carelessly. This post challenges the default hiring mindset and makes the case for treating team selection like an elite operation, not a checklist.
When to Ignore Good Advice
Not all popular business advice is universally true. Discover when and why you should thoughtfully ignore conventional wisdom to build genuine skill, autonomy, and professional success.
On the Satisfaction of Writing
Writing is the antidote for modern distractions—it resurrects the part of you that died when someone told you to grow up. The hardest part of writing is always the beginning—that first line, that first idea, that first breath of truth. As I sit at my desk and think about why I write, I’ve landed on … Read more
Of Battles and Angels
It’s bedtime once more, and that means my son gets to ask existential questions about life and God—right before prayer. My five-year-old son always seems to have deeper questions. Last night, he asked about angels. Specifically, he asked, “Dad, are angels God’s soldiers?” I have no idea where he comes up with these things. As … Read more
BUSY IS A LIE
No tombstone ever read: “Here lies a man who would have done something great, but he was too busy and went along to get along.” I was raised in a household where “I don’t have time” wasn’t allowed. The only acceptable phrase was: “I don’t want to make time.” And that’s the truth no one … Read more
The Conversation You Haven’t Earned Yet
”If you haven’t been through it, you haven’t paid the admission ticket, so you don’t get a seat at the table.” — “Mark” (XA) Mark (not his real name) sat across from a man who spoke with confidence—too much confidence. The man claimed expertise in a subject he barely understood, speaking in broad strokes and … Read more
More Than a Marathon: A Promise to My Son
My legs screamed in protest as I stepped out of the finish area, each step a reminder of the brutal toll the marathon had taken. The five blocks to my car stretched before me like an impossible journey. Just standing took effort. Every movement reminded me of the damage—the lingering injury in my left leg, … Read more